Indonesia is also a land of many cultures. There are approximately 1,340 recognized ethnic groups spread all over the country. Though different, the people share some common basic Indonesian etiquette as a day-to-day norm. Return the kindness by knowing basic Indonesian etiquette! Open yourself up to an authentic and pleasant traveling experience by learning this list of do’s and don’ts.
These norms function as a universal rule to keep every interaction pleasant for everyone involved. The very same norm is also the reason why Indonesians are known to be very warm and welcoming, including towards travelers.
The Do’s of Indonesian Etiquette
1. Cover Up
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Being an overall religious country, covering up is one of the main norms you should always follow.
Up to 86.7% of Indonesia’s population are Muslims, so most parts of Indonesia are home to predominantly Muslim locals. The island of Java and Sumatra are the most notable among others.
Be sure to cover up when you visit these islands, you can do so by avoiding sheer clothing or clothes with low cuts. If you decide to go to the beach or simply swim at the pool, you can wear a one-piece swimsuit or a combination of shorts and a T-Shirt.
On the other hand, islands frequently visited by foreigners might not react as strongly. Bali is one example of this. While you can roam around in low-cut clothing in some tourism hotspots, they do expect you to be more discreet on holy sites such as temples. If not, you can offend end up offending the locals.
2. Finishing Your Plate
Indonesians think very highly of food and will always ensure that none goes to waste. It’s also one of the ways people connect with each other. During meals, you will see Indonesians place a shared plate in the middle and eat from it together while enjoying a hearty conversation.
When you’re eating with the locals, always make sure that you try everything on the table and finish your plate clean. Indonesians will feel appreciated this way. So much so that when you’ve finished your plate, they’re likely to fill your it up with more food.
Pro tip: when you feel full and don’t think you can eat more, turn your fork and spoon over. Then, cross them on your plate to indicate that you’re finished.
3. Removing Shoes
Indonesians don’t usually wear shoes inside the house. That’s why when you’re visiting a local home, you should take off your shoes before entering.
This also applies to some places of worship. Some mosques and temples require you to do so to keep the holy place clean of any earthly dirt.
4. Smile and be Respectful
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Indonesians are extremely respectful, especially to elders. You can show your respect by smiling and nodding “hello” to everyone you pass, even if they’re complete strangers. In cases where you notice that the person is much older than you, keep your head low and shoulders bowed. It’s considered as a polite way to interact with elders.
Another thing you need to be respectful of is beliefs. When interacting with a local, you can ask what’s prohibited and considered as disrespectful according to their religion. For example, if you’re going to eat out with a local Muslim, ask them what type of foods they’re prohibited to eat and plan your night out accordingly.
5. Use Honorifics
Indonesians are pretty strict on honorifics. Unless you’re close, it’s better to not call them by their first name.
You can use honorifics such as “Mba” (Miss) or “Mas” (Mr.). If you prefer to use a more gender-neutral honorific, you can use “Kak” – though it’s better to use it among young adults.
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The Don’ts of Indonesian Etiquette
1. Using Your Left Hand
Using your left hand when you shake hands or hand something is considered rude. It’s because in Indonesian customs, the left hand is reserved for toilet functions and is labeled as “dirty” and “bad”.
It’s strongly suggested that you use your right hand during interactions. That includes shaking hands, in receiving or giving something, and when you’re eating.
2. Public Display of Affection
When you travel to Indonesia, refrain from kissing, hugging, or excessive touching. Public display of affection is frowned upon due to the country’s religious norms. It’s considered a private matter and should be kept that way.
3. Be Touchy with the Opposite Sex
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Another religious norm you should be mindful of is the matter of skin-to-skin relationships. Aside from the public displays of affection, you should also be mindful of touching the opposite gender, even your local friends. This includes hugging, shaking hands, or just a simple tap on the shoulder.
While most don’t mind, some prefer not to be touched at all. So before you approach someone, be sure to always ask about their preference.
4. Taking Pictures of Random Stranger
While welcoming, Indonesians are also generally private. There might be moments where you want to take a picture of locals with a magnificent backdrop. But before doing so, be sure to ask for their consent.
5. Act Rashly
The last important thing you should know about Indonesian etiquette is to refrain from acting rashly and displaying strong emotions, especially during disagreements.
But you should remain level-headed in this situation. Don’t raise your voice or place your hands on your hips, locals might take it as anger or a threat. Instead, explain your situation calmly and keep eye contact.
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